That’s pretty much my answer to everything these days.
I started to login to write and then thought, “Does anyone even read here anymore?” Then I remembered that handy sitemeter thingy I so dearly loved three years ago. And yes. Four people do still read here. Assuming two of you are not exes who can get facebook updates on my current mental and Mafia Wars status, I figured I’d stop by.
I also figured with several posts about my grandparents, I’d pop back in here before that one really sad post. Grandma’s health is deteriorating. She could live a few more years and I’m not trying to shovel any dirt on her, but my grandparents were so active. Two or three foreign trips a year. Dinner out at least twice a week. Houses in three different states for different seasons and connections. Now if my grandmother gets “off campus” (the hip way to refer to leaving the retirement home grounds), it’s a major occassion.
I know she thinks life is pale and stupid without my grandfather. That’s just not the kind of person who is looking to stretch her minutes here. I don’t blame her, and I know she finds joy where and when she can. I hope to be a help in this final journey of her life, as she was such a help in mine.
Tom and I are inching along. In a few months, I will have been married to him longer than my first husband. I still feel that tug. I am not cut out for this marriage crap. But he is still the king of awesome and inappropriateness and putting up with my sorry ass. So I guess I’ll keep him around.
The sanctuary…has been through many changes. And is continuing to change. Something I love telling guests is how we never feel we’ve got it perfect – we’ll always searching for ways to make the lives of the animals better. So, when you say shit like that you kinda have to shut your mouth when change occurs. They are for the best, but damn do the growing pains hurt.
For me specifically, I feel comfortable enough to say that the IT portion of my position has grown and pushed every limit of my knowledge. It’s difficult to balance it with animal care, volunteer coordinating, and the other more mundane aspects of my paycheck. Some days I feel like nothing more than a gopher. Some days I feel like a queen. And some days I feel like a failure.
Today, I felt like a failure. So I’m shooting for at least gopher tomorrow. Sometimes, it’s all you can do.