Jessica In Progress

For the Love of Fuck

Frisco

July15

Tears are streaming down my face and I need to hold on to furniture as I walk around the house.

Four days ago, we put Frisco to sleep.  The cancer was to the point he had stopped eating.

Besides a few tears when his eyes closed for the last time, I have been dry until now.

I am known for delayed grief.  I did not feel any push or desire to hasten myself from denile.  I even thought I might hold on until this weekend, when our vacation starts and I am in the Wisconsin cabin where I know I can be healed of anything.

But, events and stress and hormones being what they are, I just broke down.  And now I realize why I wanted to put off this particular cry.

Frisco, for 16 years, would come find me when I was crying.  Even when I was sad or sick, he could tell.  His fur soaked up more of my tears than anything, or anyone, else.

Now, I sat on the couch and looked around.  The dog, the other cats, kept their distance.

I feel empty of everything.

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